Random: Boys Night Out (She says…)

Let’s hear it from the girls this time. Save the best for last. :)

“Ano ba yung ‘Boys Night Out’?”

“…boys night out means hanging out with their other guy friends. This should be a wholesome night out. Just hanging around to catch up on each other, nothing more. They shouldn’t be doing it in a night club or somewhere similar. *patay sindi* kumbaga.” – ‘Girl Next Door’ Gal

“…boys night out means lakad ng mga lalaki, pwedeng inuman sa bar o pwede namang punta sa mga sumasayaw na babae na nakahubad tapos mag tatable sila.lol. Depende: Kung single, kahit saan. Kung hindi single, hindi pwede sa sumasayaw! dapat ako lang ang pinapanood niyang sumayaw.bwahaha” – ‘Bakla turned Misis’ Gal

…beer,booze,baraha. hanging out sa bar while drinking and kwentuhang “for men only” (something to that effect). wala naman limitations, pinapayagan ko nga pumunta sa mga club. konsyencya na lang nya kung may gagawin siyang kabulastugan.” – ‘Liberated’ Gal

“…All boys gimik + inumang magdamagan. Pwede sa videoke/bahay/bar. Kung mapipigilang hindi mag-girly bar na as in may sumasayaw na hubad at tini-table, sana wag nang pumunta, pero kung dun talaga nagkayayaan, pwedeng tumingin pero bawal mang-table at lalong lalong bawal mang-take out!” – ‘For-Here-No-Take-Away’ Gal 

“Magpaalam or Ipaalam?”

“…Inform me of when, where and who will be there during the night out would be appreciated. If they wouldn’t do anything suspicious, he won’t mind telling me details.” – ‘Girl Next Door’ Gal

“…dapat alam ko kung nasaan siya kahit di Boys night out! stalker lang.lol.- ‘Bakla turned Misis’ Gal

“…of course kelangan ipaalam. as per my experience, lahat alam ko kahit yung pagpunta sa mga club. I’m just making clear na walang lalampas sa limitation. as I’ve said, konsensya na lang nya kung may gagawing kabulastugan whatsoever. and he knows malaki tiwala ko so it’s up to him kung sisirain nya. hehe.” – ‘Liberated’ Gal

“…of courseness!” – For-Here-No-Take-Away’ Gal 

Conclusion

Mandatory golden rule for all girls to know their partners whereabouts regardless if it’s in a wholesome or forbidden place. No questions asked.

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“Sure God created man before woman.  But then you always make a rough draft before the final masterpiece.”  ~Author Unknown

Random: Boys Night Out (He says…)

Let’s make this blog interactive for a change. Hehehe! I’m not talking about food or travel this time. I’m pretty sure that most people can relate to this. Whether I know you or not, blissfully in a relationship, married, taken, taken for granted, singles planning to jump into a new relationship, singles who just came from an exhausting relationship, engaged, it’s complicated, etc — this is the reality. So brace yourself. Hahaha! =))

I want to put a disclaimer here, ok. See, I’m not gonna be your next Margie Holmes nor a DJ Mo wannabe, who’s gonna give you a piece of advice on your life. Because honestly, that’s none of my business.

First, I’d like to personally thank the few random people who shared their thoughts with me. I’m not going to divulge your identities and everything will be kept a secret. (You know who you are, many thanks!) ;)

So to make this topic fair and balance, I asked an equal number of boys and girls. Oops! I mean men and women, the same set of questions (some bit modified to be more gender specific). Here are some of their replies. Very interesting actually. :-)

Here’s the 1st of the 2 parts, the ‘Guy’ version.

“Ano ba yung ‘Boys Night Out’?”

“…ung boys night out for me ay parang padjama party ng girls. gimik sa bar / beerhouse or simpleng inuman lang sa bahay. pero madalas inuman lang yan sa bahay lalo na pag may mga asawa or girlfriend na ung mga boys. minsan inuumaga na yan depende pag napasarap ang kwentuhan or naparami ng inom. pwede ring tawaging boys night out ung magkakasama silang maglalaro ng dota. pag mga motor enthusiast ung mga boys, boys night out na rin para sa kanila ung pagbyahe sa province ng overnight ng nakamotor lang. “Motorista Guy

“…boys night out for me is simply an exclusive gathering of male friends then hanging out or do something that is within their common interests. more of a male-bonding activity. boys night out does not necessarily mean as “lakad-bastos”, which is a common perception by most people. it can be poker night for the boys, or a video game night, or even just a simple inuman while watching our favorite sport like basketball, football or MMA on pay per view. for example, ako lumalabas with my male friends para maglaro ng PS3 with them o kaya magic the gathering dati. o kaya inuman sa labas tapos kuwentuhan lang. though i have done the other thing as well like pumupunta sa mga strip clubs.. pero that was way back college days. i guess that term changes when you get older. hahaha!”Matured & Happily Married Guy

“…hmmm… actually wala nmn sa lugar ang boys night out eh… it depends on how you define it particularly… para sken or mostly sa mga friends ko, somewhere pa pde mag inom at maganda yung enviroment okay na… saka madami tsiks… lol..” - Tsiks Guy

“…para sakin chill lang yan.. tamang inom kasama ng mga kaibigan.. walang beer house chorva sakin! di ko trip yun..”Engaged Guy

“…para sakin ang boys’ night out, dapat, hindi alam ng babae(gf/wife) kung saan at anong gagawin, or at least hindi 100% yung alam nilang details, tulad kunwari ang ipapagpaalam ko e tatlong lalaki lang kami at iinom lang, yun pala sampu kaming lahat at gagawa ng kung anong maisipang trip.Sa min ang ibig sabihin ng boys’ night out e yung inom lang sa labas at syempre dapat walang kasamang gf or asawa or kahit sinong babae…sa karamihan ng kakilala ko, pag sinabing boys’ night out, inom + chicks…” – Semi Naughty Married Guy

…palagay ko umaabot yan sa pagpunta sa girlie bar, until mga spa na may masahista na pipiliin mo sa aquarium hahaha… or kung kagaya ko nood lang kmi sa Conspiracy ng mga alternative band na trip ng mga tropa ko hehehe soundtrip lang ba…” – Musikero Guy 

“Magpaalam or Ipaalam?”

…pwedeng ipagpaalam ung boys night out na yan pero hindi na idedetalye pa masyado. mas chismoso kasi ang mga boys at mostly boys talk na yan. R-18 madalas ung usapan pero hindi naman ung tipong kiss and tell na ung dating.- Motorista Guy

…for me, yes. i think kelangan ipagpaalam kung lalabas ka with your friends, the same goes with you girls pag kayo naman ang gigimik exclusively. la naman masama kung ibibigay mo sa partner mo that small time to bond with his male friends eh. ikatutuwa niya yun because it means you trust him/her sa mga lakad niya.ma-appreciate ka pa ng mga friends nya dahil dun.” – Matured and Happily Married Guy

…mejo either way pde.. kasi kung tamang kitakita lng ng tropa and kilala nmn ng gf yung mga kasama why not sabihin… eh kaso kung ang target ng tropa nyo eh mang chix, so its kinda dumb to tell ur gf dba…” – Tsiks Guy

“…dapat alam ng magulang ko lalo na fiancee ko kung nasan ako (kahit saan, hindi lang sa “boys night out”). pano kung may nangyari sakin di ba? as if naman hindi ako papayagan pag pinaalam ko db?” - Engaged Guy

“…Para sakin dapat ipagpaalam ang boys’ night out kung may gf or wife ang isang lalaki… ” – Semi Naughty Married Guy

…normally papaalam lang na kasama ko mga barkada kong si ganito at ganyan… pero sa case ko di ko napapaalam lahat… hahahha kasi kung may kasamang inom… yung boys night out umaabot sa extended na night out na yung ibang part ay dahil na rin sa kakulitan ng mga tropa…” – Musikero Guy

Conclusion

So in short, boys and booze always come together. Coexisting. Removing it from their system is like removing an oxygen supply from a dying patient inside an emergency room. Hahaha! I never met a guy who doesn’t drink at all (ay meron pala yung may special cases dahil ina-allergy, kawawa). Honestly, based from personal experience, as long as I know the what, where, when and who’s of this activity, ok ako. And of course, sa usapang chicks…bawal ang ‘tapau’! Hahaha! :)

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Of all the animals, the boy is the most unmanageable. – Plato”

(Part 2 “She says” coming soon :))

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